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HERO: Snaketat, 52, of Small Town NC, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Working with and support a number of gay groups. My specific interest is workplace equality. Additionally, finding ways to support gay owned business is important to me.
Living in a small southern town can be difficult for LGBT folks. The level of acceptance is not high and the effect on job opportunities beyond queer stereotypes is limited. As a result, I don't broadcast my sexuality, but I don't deny it either.
Being gay is not always the easiest way to live a life. But, it is who I am, so I try to make the best of it.
You can email Snaketat at lgbtsalisbury@gmail.com
Good job, Mr. Snaketat! Cheers! -- Jay

HERO: JAY, , of Los Angeles, CA USA, writes:
HEY! I'm mortified to have ACCIDENTALLY DELETED the entry of a gentleman from WEXFORD IRELAND.
So sorry, sir -- if you can please fill out another "Hero Form" I promise to be more careful this time.
Cheers, Jay
You can email JAY at jay@jgayheroes.com
p.s. -- here's a web site for anyone who is unsure about his sexuality: http://www.pflagphoenix.org/quick_guides/guide-questioning.html

HERO: Christopher Cornish, , of Glebe, NEW SOUTH WALES, AUSTRALIA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] To bring a greater understanding of the role of the gay man in the history of art.....and history in toto, that is the ideal. The reality is less melodramatic,the fab side of me just wants people (gay,straight..whatever)to enjoy knowing a open gay man.
[What's it like being gay?] Now , well it is rather good. Most people know that I am gay, that I am not some evil individual and that I am very human and compassionate. There are times when I am a real girl; then there are times when I am a real man.
What the heck!!!! I love being gay..ciao
You can email Christopher Cornish at mitchellroad@hotmail.com
Me too! Cheers, CC! -- Jay

HERO: Charley Dobbins, 38, of Murray, Kentucky, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Occassionally, I feed the homeless.
[What's it like being gay? (Charley is straight)] Maybe GOD should apologize for Sodom and Gommorah?
I can't believe that you would even suggest that The Apostle Paul was gay, thats unbelieveable. I just dont know whatelse to say.
You can email Charley Dobbins at
It wasn't me. It was Episcopal Archbishop John Shelby Spong. I think he knows a lot more than you or me about the apostle Paul. I just don't know what else to say. -- Jay

HERO: Petros, 19, of Saint-George, Quebec, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab... ] Change the values of the world in order to eliminate corruption and place the human values where future generations will live peacefully. Soldiers will not be trained for war. They will be trained as gladiators to compete against other nations and to fight with honour, pride and humility.
[What's it like being gay? (Petros is straight)] I think it's great! The only bad thing about sexuality I can imagine is that since only a minority of the population realize their orientatation properly without having stereotypes, many people feel bad about themselves for so long and feel really bad until they accept it and live with it.

You can email Petros at
Thanks Petros, rock on, dude! Jay

HERO: Andrew, 43, of Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada , writes:
[Plans to make world more fab... ] Trying to find why we are loosing Gay Organizations !!!!
[What's it like being gay?] It is a way to say I am different as in my lifestyle and this lifestyle is not perfect !!!
E.S.P. is real as it is a gift as of up above !!!!
You can email Andrew at spiritbear999@yahoo.ca
I knew you were going to say that! Cheers dude! Jay

HERO: David, 29, of Spain, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] to give my best in what I do, give love and teach all I can to the ones who want to hear me and learn from them.
[What's it like being gay?] nothing to answer this question. everybody has to find his/her place
[anything else to share?] my life with a someone special :)
You can email David at d_jaen@hotmail.com
Well said, David! -- Jay

HERO: ciara, 15, of wailuku, hawaii, writes:
i applaud the efforts and creativity of one straight boy who stands up for gays everywhere, his name is ****. He has been called gay all his life because of how he acts and talks and stands up for gays. he is the most honest and totally fabulous person i have ever met.
He has talked to parents, students and teachers, changing their views and the way our community relates to gays and anyone, he is amazing in his efforts and i thank him and i hope you will too.
im straight, and i love anyone; it seems like a prejudiced question asking whats it like not to be normal. being gay or straight is all the same the only difference is who you love. NOT how you love but which sex you find attractive.
You can email ciara at brando712@msn.com
Wow, Ciara, you are one great friend to say these things about your pal. I don't post people's names on GayHeroes.com without their permission, but we get the idea. Thanks for being such a great friend and for taking the time to write. -- Jay

HERO: Lauren Fox, 15, of Washington, writes:
My best friend is gay and I was thrilled that I was the first person he told! I dont really do much to help make the world more fab but I stand up for my friend and tell off anyone saying cruel things about homosexuals.
For my friend it's been somewhat hard, his mom is awesome about it but the rest of the people in my town are extremely bigoted and the teachers rarely do much at my school. But I've helped some other students set up an unoffical gay/straight alliance club and we're spreading the word that its ok to be gay.

You can email Lauren Fox at dysfunctionaldelusions@yahoo.com
Well Lauren, you're a hero to me! Cheers grrrl! -- Jay

HERO: Ryan LeFever, 16, of NY, writes:
I am instigating talk among the younger generation(High school). With the intent to make even bigger waves by dressing really flamboyantly in the 07-08 school year
[What's it like being gay?] It's actually pretty nice. A lot more people talk to me and my mom is very accepting (though my dad and sister aren't too happy).

You can email Ryan LeFever at ryanlfvr@yahoo.com
Hey Ryan -- here's to your '07 back-to-school wardrobe. Just remember, you don't have to be a clown or dress like one to make your point. And give dad & sis time; they'll come around. -- Jay

HERO: Trae, 16, of Albany NY, writes:
I want to help people my age know that it's ok to let people know the real you, even if they don't support who you are, because the world's never going to change if people don't own who they are.
My parents have a certain image of what im supposed to be, which is to be exactly like them which is totally boring, but luckily that changed when ever they found out that i was gay, lets just say me and my bf had a little to much fun that night lol, but other than my parents not supporting me its pretty cool, because people that are my true friends are ok with it which is what really matters to me.
It's ok to let the world know who you are b/c you wouldn't have been made the way you are if you weren't meant to share it with the world.
You can email Trae at
Atta boy Trae, give them time & space & love and your parents will come around. -- Jay

HERO: Amethyst Holandez....blame my mother, 26, of Minneapolis Iowa, writes:
I have just returned from 3 years traveling through the middle east, with my partner Naiomi starting from Libya through to Laos helping the peace core and the VSO where i found them i spent about 4 months in Medina in Saudi Arabia working as a midwife. I also helped raise a donation for the monks of Angor Watt after Naiomi decided she was a Buddhist (luckily that phase is over)and am currently planning a trip to Namibia with a group of my younger sister's friends to raise awareness of poverty and AIDS in Africa.
In many of the places i have traveled i have had to lie about my sexuality or hide it due to the opinions in the third world towards sexuality. For instance in Saudi Arabia it was bad enough that i wasn't married, in these places it is often a crime for a woman even to show her nose or voice her opinion, but i am completely comfortable with my sexuality.

You can email Amethyst Holandez....blame my mother at
Wow! What an interesting life! -- Jay

HERO: Hill, 23, of West Monroe, La, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] To go into medicine and also to be a writer.
[What's it like being gay?] It used to be hard, but now it's ok. Never easy in the South, but I have the love of my life and Im still movin'.
Gay ppl have an obligation to learn more about themselves and to become more unified in positive environments so that we might grow in strength and acceptance.
You can email Hill at
Well put, Mr. Hill. -- Jay

HERO: Mary, 20, of Hobbs, New Mexico, writes:
I plan on doing whatever God calls me to do. Hopefully, it will have something to do with the theatre.
I don't believe it matters what orientation someone is. You can't help who you love. There have been many famous people who have been gay, straight, and questioning. I believe we need to find out who we are and be proud of it.

You can email Mary at articspice@yahoo.com
Excellent, Mary; I hope God's plans for you include Broadway Stardom. -- Jay

HERO: charles, 44, of athens, georgia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Are you f**king kidding me? I have stood up in the face of all my family when they called my dying friend and cousin a fag and told them all that they they were wrong. I have called GW Bush the f**king idiot he is and marched in eveery anti-war rally since among the plethora of things I have done.
{What's it like being gay? (Charles is straight)] Man, love is love... all that matters is love. I love my gay friends... f**k hate... love is all that matters... if someone loves another of the same sex, is that any different than stright sex? No!
[Anything else?] F**k yes! Let's f**k the differences and love one another... F**k hate... sorry I'm drunk
You can email charles at karmadream@msn.com
Here's to ya, Charles, that was hilarious. In Vino Veritas! -- Jay

HERO: Wisdomquestnow, 21, of Amman/Jordan, writes:
I am learning what should be really done by me when I become a reformer locally and internationally, I'm writing down ideas that I think are genuine; they'll be a book worthy of reading. Thats a first step.
Being gay means I see things which other are incapable of seeing, People have commented that I'm unique and have to-the-point views on particular issues, I know this about myself, It will be more beautiful if they can see why for real.
To the Islamic reformers: enough thinking that gay people are sinful because of something they didn't choose, especially when they don't do sex, what is their fault exactly? Does not GOD teach that lying is a sin? Why should I lie all through my life?
You can email Wisdomquestnow at wisdomquestnow@yahoo.com
It's good to hear the voice of Wisdom. Your road will not be easy but I am delighted and inspired that you have chosen it. I pray that many unexpected helpers will appear when you need them. Best of luck to you. -- Jay

HERO: candra, 14, of lakeland florida, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] making bisexual not a bad thing but a good thing so there wont be so much rage against the gay power!
its ok because it depends on who im around like people i don't know i get called horrid names but sumtymes they dont care.
Yes i have a bf but i make out with my best frend thats a gurl.
You can email candra at c92ns@aol.com
Well you are extremely sophisticated, Candra. -- Jay

HERO: Maureen, 43, of Minnesota, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Living a liberal life - setting an example for my children and their children
My husband was bi (he was killed 3 years ago) and I loved how I felt like we were exceptionally special because of it. It was almost as if I felt 'better' than other couples. Of course only he and I knew about it.
I wish I could tell my children about their father. It really was an important part of who he was and who we were.
You can email Maureen at mreen81@yahoo.com
Well, that will be tricky. Of course you can teach tolerance from day 1, but they will have to be quite mature for a discussion like that about dad. Best of luck, Maureen, and condolences on your loss. -- Jay

HERO: Kori Cate, 19, of Dallas, Texas, writes:
I want to help make gay and lesbian marriages legal in all states, not just a few of them.
My mother is a lesbian, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!

You can email Kori Cate at sailorcosmos20@yahoo.com
Excellent, Kori! So far we've got one down and 49 to go. We'll all be there to help. -- Jay

HERO: Dawn, 37, of Lexington, NC, writes:
I am not doing much to make the world more fab, other than trying to make sure that through my children there will be less prejudice in the world.
Although I am not gay, I am not blind to the treatment of gay people. I believe people are people no matter their sexual preference or race. A person's accomplishments and heart is what makes them great. Their sexual preference shouldn't matter. After all, everyone is searching to be loved and accepted. (someone you can call your soulmate).
When you find the right person, it should not be questioned, because it is not often that you find someone you can have a beautiful relationship with
You can email Dawn at sunshinejones69@msn.com
Thanks, Dawn -- you are proof that yes indeed, the sun does shine south of the Mason-Dixon Line. -- Jay

HERO: Veronica, 25, of Connecticut, USA, writes:
I have been active in volunteerwork locally and globally. I encourage creative and spiritual growth in others who have their material needs met, or don't. I plan on studying to become a Unitarian Universalist minister. I will travel and write, and hopefully, I and others will evolve together toward a more loving and accepting world community.
Being bisexual has had its pros and cons. Yes, my playing field is wider. But, I get flack from both the gay and straight communities. I see gender as fluid, and I look to the hearts of others when choosing a partner. As a serial monogamist, I think I have helped in challenging the "promiscuous and adultering bisexual" stereotype. I think there will be less biphobia in the future, as we learn about one another, and accept one another's differences. Judgment is a vice.

You can email Veronica at
Thanks, Veronica, for being an elegant and articulate voice for the bisexual community. -- Jay

HERO: Mike P, 33, of Philly area, writes:
I work in a primary straight Man profession (security high-end) where even the slightest sign of being different is frowned upon everyone knows my life style and I know through my dedication to my co-workers in my duty that I have changed minds about us
[What's it like being gay?] this is al I know so its normal for me
anyone who needs to talk or help dealiing with yoour true feeliiings just remember You are not alone
You can email Mike P at msmt94@yahoo.com
Thanks for making a difference, Mike! Leading by example is the best way to go. Cheers, bro! Jay

HERO: Mike, 31, of San Diego, writes:
I work for the environment. I compose music. It is great to be straight. You obviously do not understand the nature of genius. If Handel made the comment "I have no time for anything but music," he probably was being literal.
Many genius' are driven by a force which the non-genius (such as yourself) will never comprehend. Do not make the egocentric assumption that others have the same desires that lay in your soul.
If you would do your homework, you would find that many genius' were asexual. I ask that you remove this godly man from your list of "gay Heroes." Rumours are childish and can be damaging. Thank You, Mike Vos
You can email Mike at
Hey Mike. Even non-geniuses like me don't swallow the "asexual" excuse used by childish people who can't take the truth. Do some geniuses never eat food because they're too busy being a genius? Bach was just as big a genius as Handel and had twenty kids -- he wasn't too busy being a genius to get laid. Wake up and get over it. -- Jay

HERO: David , 49, of Los Angeles, California, writes:
I am a doctor who takes care of people with terminal illnesses. I help to control pain and symptoms, and work with my patients and their families to plan how they want to spend the time remaining to them. My patients are diverse: straight, gay, all races, rich and poor. All get the same (good, I hope) treatment.
I've been out since age 16 and have never been able to pass as straight. Early on, I got a lot of flack about being gay at school and from my family, but I suppose that forced me to develop a core sense of self worth. Friendships became very important to me. In my 20s I watched as many friends I loved died of AIDS. This painful part of my experience as a gay man motivated me to enter medical school and to become a palliative care doctor.

You can email David at dwallenstein@hotmail.com
Okay David; it doesn't get any more heroic than that! -- Jay

HERO: Serene, 18, of Charlotte, NC, writes:
My friend, Midi, and I are writing a book that include gay and lesbian couples as well as straight ones. We plan for this book to, hopefully, hit the top ten list in five years or so (it's a series really).
Being a lesbian is, for me, akin to riding a rollarcoster. I come from a traditional Greek family; my Yiayia still expects me to get married and have children. Also, every role-model I see on tv or in movies are complete tomboys, but I'll never change who I am.
Just a few words of advice: Never change who you are for anything or anyone, even if they say they love you!
You can email Serene at Rini1031@aol.com
Wow, you sure do have lots of wisdome, Serene! -- Jay

HERO: Dax, 28, of Philippines, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Live a good life... tha's all!
[What's it like being gay?] It has been a tough journey until i was able to accept my self for who I am but now I realized that everything tends to unfold in the right time and at the right moment... I am now thankful I was born this way...

You can email Dax at mapagmahal77@yahoo.com
I am too, Dax! Cheers -- Jay

HERO: Alaric, 13, of The State of New York, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Creating classical music.
[What's it like being gay?] Its a totally different experience. I love it.
I love classical music and playing all of my instruments and compositions. And no i dont have a boyfriend,
You can email Alaric at Alaric858@yahoo.com
There will be plenty of time for that later, young man. Now get back to that divertimento you were working on! Cheers, bro! Jay

HERO: Chris Malone, 13, of Ipswich, Queensland, writes:

I'm straight, in fact I'm proud to be straight, it's great!!! But my favourite Gay Hero was Achilles, like my email address is, achilles_332000@hotmail.com, I never knew achilles was gay till yesterday, 13 July 2007, when my S.O.S.E. Teacher told us a story about Troy and the Greeks and that story, you know the one.
Yes, whats the Orientation part of this form?
You can email Chris Malone at achilles_332000@hotmail.com
Hey Chris -- "orientation" means sexual orientation -- are you gay or straight. Orientation means "direction" -- which way something is facing is it's orientation. It's a tendency, an inclination, a predisposition in favor of something. One can also have a political orientation, such as leftist. So "sexual orientation" means "which direction do you lean towards, gay or straight?" Cheers, bro! -- Jay

HERO: I.V. Neves Marshall, 20, of MO, writes:
I plan to make the world better with my writings and my music. The style of my musical growth ranges from rock, metal, punk, new age, folk, classical, shred, blues; and many more styles that I cannot even name.
What is it like to be gay? Well for me, yes, it feels great to be able to understand a part of myself and grow into my own skin. I just see this as anything else I've been through, and let myself grow from within; the only bad thing about growing up and being gay, is living in the south. They're too many people whom live life in the past and don't let their minds grow to an understanding of how to better their life and self.
I plan to write a book soon. And within a few days I'll be recording a c.d. of all original songs; featuring myself playing the guitar and nothing else.
You can email I.V. Neves Marshall at jmccarter7386@yahoo.com
You are quite a renaissance man, sir, just like Leonardo da Vinci. Cheers, bro! -- Jay

HERO: Andy, 14, of Massachusetts, writes:
Whooo baby! Well, I'm a huge Richard the Lionheart fan and he is my bloody idol! I'm spreading the word about him, mostly. Wrote a short story about him and his boys. And a while ago a friend told me that my boyfriend are exactly like Richard and Philip of France. That made my day, obviously.
[What's it like being gay?] Free, for the most part. My boyfriend moved away last year, and I really loved him a lot a lot a lot, so I've been sort of like Ennis at the end of 'Brokeback Mountain' for a while. But Richard and all the other gay heroes comfort me. I have about a thousand books on ol' Rich, and I regularly pick fights with people who think he was straight. Well, not really.
I've always been brave and very open about my homosexuality, and I can't resist being reckless and, well, lionhearted.
You can email Andy at andyshark@hotmail.com
You go, King Andy the Lionheart of Massachusetts! -- Jay

HERO: Derek A. Fuzzell, 21, of Conway, AR, writes:
I am a playwrite who writes mostly about gay figures in history or gay political issues. Historical subjects include King Ludwig II of Bavaria, King Richard (I) the Lionhearted of England, and King Eduard II of England.
[What's it like being gay?] Living in Arkansas, my homosexuality was really repressed until the winds of change started blowing in 2004. I am now out and proud of who I truly am. It is now just an accepted part of daily life, especially working in the theatre world.
I have plans of moving to Chicago in the next few years to try to get my plays produced and published.
You can email Derek A. Fuzzell at fuzzy_7@hotmail.com
Good job, Derek, and I bet you will take the Windy City by storm! -- Jay

HERO: michael, 36, of fort lauderdale, FL, USA, writes:
We'll lets see...I plan on leaving as much fantastic, wonderful, eye candy, mosaic creations behind as my hands will possibly allow me to. And I plan on sharing it with my new love. My wonderful man Mark, my biggest fan. Check me out, if you like, on mosaicsbytodd.com
[What's it like being gay?] I wouldn't change it for anything. Because I am gay, my eyes have been opened to see many things I might not have seen if I were otherwise.
Many great masters of the art world have been gay or thought to have been. There will be no mistake when the time comes for the world to view my work as well. Positive Rolemodels! Right?! xoxo
You can email michael at todd@MOSAICSBYTODD.COM
xoxo to you too, Mr. Mosaic! -- Jay

HERO: Chester Carone, 50, of Blonay - Switzerland, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I hope I BRING A GREAT DEAL OF PLEASURE TO PEOPLE, AS i am a CLASSICAL OPERA SINGER
[What's it like being gay?] I have never had any problems, and have a lot of marvellous GAY friends - both men and women. Also, I have been in relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 30 years. We are BOTH professional men, and quite discreet about our feelings.

You can email Chester Carone at c.carone@bluewin ch.
Well then, Chester, get out there and sing about it from the rooftops! -- Jay

HERO: Cory, Ageless, of Vancouver, writes:
It's all on my website... http://justbelove.com

You can email Cory at cory@justbelove.com
Succinctly said. You can see pics and read about ageless Cory at his website. -- Jay

HERO: april but i am going to do my mum, 13, of sydney, writes:
she is great she cooks and cleans leads a buisiness looks after me and my brother keeps her self looking good lol and gives herself no credit 4 what a fabulous person she is
ummmmm........she is kool and straight
i luv my mummy
You can email april but i am going to do my mum at Xx.a.p.r.i.l.xX@hotmail.com
Happy Mothers' Day, April, to you and your mum. -- Jay

HERO: biswa, 32, of kolkata///india, writes:

nice to enrich the historical interest
want to share the knowledge
You can email biswa at bnicbi@yahoo.com
Thank you, Biswa. -- Jay

HERO: chester carone, 50, of switzerland, writes:
I AM A PROFESSIONAL MUSICAN AUSTRALIAN BY BIRTH AND LOVE PERFORMING ALL OVER THE WORLD- ESPECIALLY AMERICA- i am a very happy person who has had one partner for 12 years.
i have been gay ever since college days and I HAVE AMASSED A LOT OF WONDERFUL FRIENDS IN MY WORLD-WIDE TRAVELS. I DON'T BELIEVE THAT i am OBVIOUSLY GAY AND CANNOT ABIDE GIRLISH BEHAVOUR UNLESS IT IS IN FUN.
I AM KEENLY INTERESTED ABOUT THE EVENTS OF THE CIVIL WAR, AND IN MY TRAVELS HAVE VISITED MANY HARROWED SITES. I LOVE READING, AND AM FASINARED WITH THE LADIES ON ^BOTH SIDES^ WHO WERE SPIES. OF COURSE MY HERO IS DEAR 'ABE',WHAT A MARVELLOUS HUMAN BEING.
You can email chester carone at c.carone@� bluewinch.
As I think you are too, Chester! -- Jay

HERO: arijit roy, 21, of kolkata, india, writes:
i am an active communist and i want to remove every iota of class segmentation and class consciousness that ploys to keep the rich man in his castle, the poor man at his gate. needless to say, orientation based oppression is only a part of this larger state of affairs.
being gay carries with it an increased share of responsibility , as homosexuality is a much-maligned thing in india and we are desperately trying to disprove some of the more unsavoury myths about it.
" the one thing that does not operate by a majority rule is the human conscience"
You can email arijit roy at joyridingdeep@yahoo.co.in
I hope you can change the world, Arijit! -- Jay

HERO: Alexander, 25, of Bulgaria, writes:
We must teach the people what is good and what is bad, escpecially most of the gays who behave like animals. Is it so hard to follow the example of Alexander and love only one man? We must bring peace, make people help and respect eachother! this is the gols that must be achieved and all the good people must work on it!
On the first place you must know how to love, second you must know how to make compromises and lift up in the divinity, by respecting yourself on the first place!
Human is different from animal! the difference is in the brain! Think first before doing something stupid! AND dont do something that you dont want somebody another do to you
You can email Alexander at alexios@abv.bg
If you think that "most gays" behave like animals, are you including me? Or all those OTHER gays, not you and me? Alexander loved at least two men -- Hephaestion and Bagoas. Sometimes gay men are stereotyped as rigid and judgemental. Are you? -- Jay

HERO: Jake Case, 34, of Llantwit Major, South Wales, UK, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I will continue to promote the concept of unity in diversity by preserving the ages-old Celtic symbol of the Triskele in my music and artwork. Also, to help other straight people to understand the contribution of the gay population to the achievement of the human race
I think a lot of sick, biggotted, selfish and attention-seeking people seek refuge in a homosexual lifestyle, giving Gay a bad rep in the same way as alot of sick people find a haven in religion
I believe that the world would be a poorer place without gayness. Gay gives humanity the edge it needs to survive. Look at all the geniusses on this site. Feeling different is the key to thinking outside the box. Glad to recieve any email. Educate me more.
You can email Jake Case at cake@jakecase.fsnet.co.uk
Don't hold back, Jake -- tell us what you REALLY think! Cheers, bro! Jay

HERO: Fita, 38, of Balkan, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Love unconditionally
[What's it like being gay?] Is great thing, to loveand being loved by same sex partner is great, we understand same sex more then the opposite sex, we know what we want more ,we know what same sex dream is...gay love is greater then any other
And I am in love, he is my man and I am his
You can email Fita at gayandcute@yahoo.com
Thanks, Fita -- I think you're our first guest from the Balkans! -- Jay

HERO: Damian Jay, 29, of Portsmouth U.K., writes:
I'm an Ilusionist, and Entertainer, that takes a veriety of shows all over the country, to make people happy and to make them laugh.
Its FABULOUS being a Gay man, I have many gay, bi and straight friends all over this wonderful country.
If anyone would like to talk about me bringing my shows to your country then by all means get in touch with me.
You can email Damian Jay at jaydamian@hotmail.co.uk
We can all use a little magic every now and then, DJ. Good luck to you! -- Jay (p.s. can you make Georgie Bush disappear?)

HERO: Nikki, 16, of Bellevue Nebraska, writes:
My goal is to meet at least 10 people who are against gays, and show them that we aren't bad or horrible or perverts or any of that at all.
[What's it like being lesbian?] It's hard, but i'd go through anything for my girlfriend.
3 days ago was our 4 month! :) But i've liked her for about a year now. I finally got my chance 6 months ago. I'm so happy.
You can email Nikki at xxdrownyououtx@aol.com
Happy 4-months to you! And I'm glad you did what had to be done when you "finally got your chance" - seizing the opportunity like Alexander the Great. -- Jay

HERO: Twilight, 14, of Texas, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] Getting an education in order to become a neurologist.
[What's it like being lesbian?] Great.

You can email Twilight at kassandradawn@yahoo.com
Well, that's certainly ambitious! -- Jay

HERO: Gary, 55, of Illlinois, writes:
I have for 6 years been on the Ryan White Planning Council. Directing the allocations of funds for health care for HIV+ people in my area. I have, also, for 6 years singlehandedly run a non-for-profit Organization that helps People with HIV keep their pets vaccinated and cared for by Veterinarians. By being openly "out" in my community and also "out" as HIV+ I hope that my role model will help others to deal more frankly and openly with HIV and maybe I can save one person. That would be the best !!!
As to being gay: That is what I was born as and I could no more change that than stop the sun from rising. Each person in the world must come to terms with who they are and relish in the individuality that we all have.

You can email Gary at pawsme@hotmail.com
Relish and extra mustard for me, please! -- Jay

HERO: A.G., 16, of Massachusetts, writes:
I'm writing a novel. I love fantasy and science-fiction books, but I want to read one where the girl gets the girl, and where the character's sexuality is just part of who they are, not a whole big deal. If the character was straight they wouldn't spend a few chapters worrying about it, would they? Anyway, these girls do fall for eachother, and there is a happy ending.
[What's it like being lesbian?] Sometimes it's a bit lonely (I don't know anyone else who is), but my friends are all really nice and supportive. I worried about coming out for a while, but once you do it, it's like flying for the first time. There's all this nervousness and worrying that you'll fall beforehand, and then once you do it feels like you've lifted off the ground.
My friends and my parents know, and I've never had any problems because of it. Oh, and I love my state for what it's done! Go MA!
You can email A.G. at
Well done, A.G. and I love your State too! -- Jay

HERO: Michael Folmar, 53, of Campbell, CA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] As a Dentist I'm specializing pro-bono repair of eroded teeth of gay men who were meth users and are currently HIV+.
[What's it like being gay?] I'm actually married and have two kids. My wife knows I'm gay and doesn't mind (she's bisexual).
Merry Christmas
You can email Michael Folmar at
Now that's being a hero. -- Jay

HERO: Miguel Ramos, 42, of Spain, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] resist. resist. show the world my dreams of love are as sacred and beautiful as theirs. I tell my students to be smart and discard that idea of normal people, except for that gay, that negro, that dwarf, giraffe, poor,....who can say is out of that black list? Superman?
[What's it like being gay?] Hard, I fall in love with supposedly closeted boisexuals,
This web can let the world know about the suffering of homosexuals in history. It's been a holocaust. Humankind must take responsibility. The disgust they feel towards homosexuals is nothing compared to to the horror they should feel if faced with some facts of history. Shame is the first stage to heal the past. (sorry if I sound angry,we should never let anger destroy justice or humanity)
You can email Miguel Ramos at miguelamo@euskalnet.net
Hey, Miguel, I feel your anger too. But the world IS waking up, your own country has passed a historic gay marriage bill. Gotta love that! -- Jay

HERO: Anonymous, , of West Virginia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] To meet people one person at a time and quietly change their perspective and negative views about gays. But I think the real gay heroes of today should be the men and women in the military that are gay!
Imagine what it would be like to live and work in an anti gay environment like the military and still be willing to lay down your life for the military and a country that still, by and large, wants nothing to do with you and will not give you any legal or marriage rights?
To be in the military is to deny who you are... it is a suffocating feeling
You can email Anonymous at
Well, soldier, as I assume you are, take heart. Yes. it's suffocating to be in the closet, either by our own fear or by the stupid rules of "don'task - don't tell". But I don't think those rules will last. Maybe your military career will still be subject to them, but the next generation will see progress. Cheers, bro! -- Jay

HERO: Stephen Miller, 15, of Visalia, Ca, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab} Be a History Professor on world history and paintings by some of the most famous in the past. And Archaeology and Gay Pride, and male Feminist speaker.
[What's it like being gay?] It is an everyday struggle but I manage with help from my supportive friends.
I love world history. I love the scandal of it and the gays from it.
You can email Stephen Miller at gaysfreed@yahoo.com
Well you have an exciting adventure ahead of you, Stephen, traveling through all the scandals of history and art. What a great thing to share with people! Good luck and enjoy! -- Jay p.s. Enjoy California's beautiful central valley -- I went to Fresno State so I've been through your town a few times.

HERO: Jerrid Wolflick, 40, of Eugene, Oregon, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Abolish the Legal Protections of Marriage for heterosexuals and homosexuals, replacing it with a uniform civil unions contract.
[What's it like being gay?] It is amazing. I have been totally open since I was 20, old for this day and age but this was 1985 in a rural Oregon community.
It is time for the gay community to quit trying to emulate the failing straight world. We have an opportunity to remake society into something more sane and open; why are we fighting for rights that have always been used historically for oppression?
You can email Jerrid Wolflick at jmawolflick@hotmail.com
Atta boy, Jerrid -- you tell 'em. -- Jay

HERO: Mar�a Jos� ( Aome09), 14, of Valdivia, Chile, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] First off I must say that I am from a place where te lenguaje is Spanish, so If my English is bad I apologize. I am trying to make conscious, make the people see wath is hapenning in the real world. I notice that are few peoples that smile, or help other I am trying to give an exemple. And I am gonna to write a book of poetry, wiht a lot of toughts, I hope that you can read It.
[What's it like being lesbian?] My fathers are close-minded so I cant say wath are my orientations. The people have too much prejudices, against that in every place of this world, but here in Chile is very strong the hate for those that arent like the usual. And the cynicysm is too much.
Sorry I am not good at sharing my things :P
You can email Mar�a Jos� ( Aome09) at Aome09@hotmail.com
Beautifully done, Mar�a Jos�, we understand you perfectly. Thank you! -- Jay

HERO: Thomas Pierce, 14, of Sydney, NSW, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Not much at the moment, but I would like to spread tolerance towards my kind.
[What's it like being gay?] At first I was just stunned, then in denial. But now I am proud of being gay, because I see it as a gift from God. If I was straight I would be trapped in a world of ignorant rock and soccer, but I am free to be cultured and different.
Amen.
You can email Thomas Pierce at
Amen to you, too, brother. -- Jay

HERO: Nikki Pierre, 18, of Washington, writes:
i am going to legalize gay marriage in washington state.
[What's it like being bi?] its like soo awesome. i love it i mean i got twice the chance of getting a date on saturday night being bisexual. it rocks!!!

You can email Nikki Pierre at bananakitty7@hotmail.com
That's quite an ambitious agenda -- you'll be so busy dating how will you ever find the time? Thanks for sharing! -- Jay

HERO: Jimmy, 54, of Northeast Pennsylvania, writes:
For 31 years I was a gay teacher in a very conservative area, teaching students that peace and tolerance can be achieved through the arts. In the beginning, I was closeted, but as my philosophy took hold and I gained respect as an educator, I slowly came out. Because my work help students to high levels of achievement, I was "tolerated." Now, I am retired and looking to continue my mission.
[What's it like being gay?] It was a struggle, but that has all changed by realizing that beyond a limited gay culture, being gay is a wonderful gift.

You can email Jimmy at izitreally@msn.com
There's hope for the new generation thanks to teachers like you. -- Jay

HERO: Pamela, 43, of Memphis, TN, writes:
I Am the only openly lesbian instructor in the English department of the University where I am studying for my Ph d. I am committed to my students and opening their minds to the lives of their gay brethren and intend to continue this work after my graduation.
[What's it like being lesbian?] Most of the time it is good, but there have been occasional difficulties because of my outspokenness.

You can email Pamela at litwolf43@msn.com
You go, Pamela -- call it like ya sees it. -- Jay

HERO: Brian, 24, of Iowa, writes:
When I was 17 years old I wrote an essay on the similarities between the apartheid in South Africa and the treatment of Australian aborigines by the Australian government. This essay focused on the atrocities that were being carried out in the name of both governments and the progress that was being made towards peace.
My essay was so well received that it won the United States Institute of Peace's State Essay contest and I was flown out to D.C. to meet with all the other State winners.
While in D.C. I got to meet with my congressmen and discuss my essay, which hopefully brought a little more enlightenment to this world on the atrocities that have been carried out.
You can email Brian at
Excellent, Brian -- keep on making the world better! -- Jay

HERO: Beau, 59, of Las Vegas NV USA, writes:
Retired from teaching Sociology, I have a newsgroup at yahoo http://www.geocities.com/maniac1916/Radicalesbian.html and love to build websites for political causes and support. My greatest accomplishmen is raising 3 feminist children.
I was naive and didn't know there were female "homosexuals" until I had been married for several years. I finally came out (to myself and my kids at the same time) at the age of 35. By then there was starting to be some gay acceptance, but I remained closeted to my parents until they died.
My bed LMAO -- just kidding. I'm single and looking at a future living with my kids and grandkids.
You can email Beau at maniac1916@yahoo.com
Hey Beau -- we should all be so lucky as to look forward to that! -- Jay

HERO: Michael, 23, of Augusta, West Virginia, writes:
I am going to be opening an online editing website. I will edit and proofread websites inside and out to help businesses make a great first impression. In so doing helping those others to realize thier dreams.
At first, it was rough....when I came out(I was 18 at the time) my parents asked me when my next paycheck would come in. I told them in two weeks. They said I have two weeks to get out. Yeah ah talk bout heartbroken and lost. But everything happens for a reason. I was currently seeing someone who lived in West Virginia. (I was born in Pennsylvania, you know with Dracula and all....ok that was lame.) I called him that night and he came and got me the next day. Talk about a GayHero...he is and always will be mine
I just saw the Alexander Movie...Loved it. Well good luck to all of those out there chasing their dreams.
You can email Michael at hailstone32@hotmail.com
What a story. Don't give up on your parents, I hope they will come around eventually. -- Jay

HERO: Aaron , 23, of Fairview Park Ohio, writes:
I am living with my boyfriend of 5 years... I wish to show the world, that being gay isn't just about sex. I am in love, and in a very stable relationship. We will grow old together, have children, and I believe never leave one another.
For a long time I wished I could be like everyone else. Recently I realized, everyone is different. Some strait boys kiss boys. Some strait girls kiss girls. Some are totally against all of this. Were all different.
I just love reading about famous gay people. I just wish they could be open about who they are. Thousands of years ago we were further in our rights, and acceptance than we are today. And only by doing and showing our love, as straights do, can we be seen as equal, and normal.
You can email Aaron at hinge1987@aol.com
Wow. You, sir, are my hero. -- Jay

HERO: Greg, 55, of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada, writes:
I work hard, and often accomplish what I set to out to do; in improving the working conditions and economic environment of my brothers and sisters. This is a labour of love, and is probably the most challenging and gratifying vocation one can take up.
I am not gay or lesbian, straight or bi or anything but could probably, in some way lay claim to any one of the above categories.
The reason I located this site is that I like to read about heroes. I was looking for more insight into Alexander the Great. We should all strive to be heroes, and Aristotle supposedly said "Fortume favours the bold".
You can email Greg at greg140@hotmail.com
Yep, they used that quote in the movie "Alexander". And I appreciate your refusal to be pigeon-holed! -- Jay

HERO: Fred, 51, of Alexandria, Indiana, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Just trying to get people to accept people as they are. If we accepted others the way that we want to be accepted, the world would be a better place.
Some know that I'm gay, dont mind one way or the other. I have to keep a low profile and sometimes its easy but I get very lonely. I know that if I told my family, they would not want me around any more.
I get into the leather scene and like to hear from others that are into the same thing. I have a medium build with a slight stomach that I am trying to eliminate this winter.
You can email Fred at fred_smith970@yahoo.com
Fred, I'll bet you'd be surprised about your family. 1. They know. 2. They want you around -- it's YOU who fear the worst. 3. Read the "Ask Marilyn" page 100 TIMES, a link is on the GayHeroes home page. BELIEVE ME, I've been where you are. As long as you feel you have a shameful secret, you will never be whole. Write to me any time. -- Jay

HERO: Ruby, 16, of Wisconsin, writes:
I am a Human Rights/Animal Rights activist, as well as an environmentalist. I volunteer at ECHO (a place that helps financially out of luck families) every Thursday. But, most of all I do one of the best things any of us can do: I am happily, proudly and unapologetically me.
[What's it like being a lesbian?] It�s a little hard as I live in a rather small [minded] town and the only one of my family I�ve told is my younger brother, who to his credit is very supportive, but I am mostly happy. After all this is how I was born, why complain about something that is a part of a beautiful me?
If I sound like I'm gloating, I don't mean to be. I just want the world to be a better place and so that�s how I live. : ) I love reading about the lives of gay people in the past and when I graduate and open my own bookstore I will be dedicating a whole section to it. No matter what.
You can email Ruby at moonlitwalks@hotmail.com
So young, so fab, so... Ruby. -- Jay

HERO: Michael, 24, of montreal, writes:
Im studying the endoplasmic reticulum, hoping to finish graduate school and cure diabetes in mice.
And in my free time: well, I live to BBQ!!!!
Anything else to share?! Just my love for all... :)
You can email Michael at
Well, just don't be barbecuing any mice. -- Jay

HERO: Joe, 50ish, of Madrid, Spain, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Fight bigotry and prejudice, make people understand that variety is the essence of life.
[What's it like being gay?] It's wonderful. It has made me a better person and has given me the chance to meet my loving partner, whom I intend to marry soon. In Spain gay marriage is legal since the 30th of June 2005.
Never surrender; always be yourself.
You can email Joe at jupiter44@telefonica.net
Congrats on you and your country for your HUGE contribution to worldwide human rights. Years from now, when everyone has the right to marry, you can say you were among the first. It's so fab! -- Jay

HERO: robert ferguson, 42, of lilesville nc, writes:
im a fire fighter of 20 years
[What's it like being gay?] its just a normal thing for me
i want to meet other gay and biesexual fire fighters and emts
You can email robert ferguson at bobby28091@yahoo.com
Allright. you know who you are, send this guy an e-mail! Thanks, Bobby! -- Jay

HERO: Melanie, 17, of Cape Cod, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Lessening the pay difference between men and women in the same careers-.80 cents to the dollar, my rosy red ass!
I go to a school where no one is harassed about it [being gay], and everyone is very open, but I have seen some friends mistreated for it. I say, if two guys or two girls are in love, they're damned lucky.
And if two guys wanna make out where I can see 'em, I am too... ;)
You can email Melanie at tye_dyedfan@Yahoo.com
Now there's a refreshing point of view! -- Jay

HERO: Joyce, 57, of Oklahoma, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Openly support and love All people regardless with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE AS CHRIST TAUGHT!!
AS a straight mom with a gay son I am SO PROUD of I love your site and all the info contained in it! I accept my son just as he is and has always been which is a handsome, articulate, educated, loving wonderful human being and who is GOD'S CHILD as WE ALL ARE!!
It pains me the way far too much of society professes to be "Christians" and all that and then are so full of bias and ignorance!! Sites like yours need to be read and read again! Thanks for the opportunity to share my love for my son and to give my thoughts here.
You can email Joyce at
Well, there's one gay son who is extremely lucky. Thanks for writing, Joyce, you are a HUGE hero. -- Jay

HERO: Joey, 18, of Denmark, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I'm writing away! My first book about two young boys forming a relationship is already written, the sequel is more than halfway written, and the third I've planned out, as well as many, many short stories!
[What's it like being gay?] I wouldn't have it any other way. In Denmark it's very accepted to be gay, and I've met no negative results so far.
[What else?] Velvet Goldmine is the awesomest movie ever made! Well... I'm very happy I've found and accepted myself, and I'm even more happy that my friends haven't ever let this become an issue - on the contrary, one of them came out to me not so long ago, so now our group contains three bis, one homo and one transvestite, while the rest are straight... so far :-)
You can email Joey at seje_joey@hotmail.com
Good job, Joey! -- Jay

HERO: Linda, 25, of Sweden, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I am actually doing nothing. I'm not an active member of the church, but I am a believer.
I love gay people. I have a couple of friends, one being gay and one being a lesbian. They are both awesome people, though I'm not seeing to much of them anymore unfortunately. One has moved far away, though we keep in touch. And one doesn't seem to be interested in friendship anymore. A shame.
[Anything else?] Not really, not at the moment. I'm dying for some penpals though. Straight, gay, whatever. Doesn't matter.
You can email Linda at Linda_PJ2000@yahoo.se
Well come on, Linda! Find a good cause, from the environment to helping kids learn to read.... there's always something that needs to be done right in your town to make the world better. And you'll meet fab folks while you're at it. -- Jay

HERO: Purdue , 17, of Buffalo NY, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I do not know
it is very hard to be me
no
You can email Purdue at
Well, come on, Ms Perdue -- cheer up! And do something to make your life more enjoyable. Find a professional you can talk to; get counselling at your school or at the gay & lesbian center in Buffalo; it's free and confidential. Good luck to you and have a great life -- I know you will! - Jay

HERO: abhishek, 21, of pune, maharastra, India, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] not yet decided
[What's it like being gay?] sexy males with whom i can feel secure
[Anything else?] nothing especially but just about my 1st love 6yrs ago a boy came into my life and went away and then after... still i am waiting for him
You can email abhishek at downcool28@hotmail.com
Hey, Abhishek, some of my pals go to your city for yoga. A first love always holds a special place in our hearts, but now that you're 21, you might want to move on from the boy you knew back when you were 15. Keep making friends and you'll meet somebody new. -- Jay

HERO: Marty, 17, of , writes:
I have been working on a documentary on Homosexuality in high schools to be presented at the end of the school year to my all male high school.
[What's it like being gay?] Its great, i wouldn't have life any other way.

You can email Marty at
Well done, Marty, give a great presentation, mention the great GayHeroes from history, and knock 'em dead. Cheers, bro! -- Jay

HERO: Sameer, , of Lucknow, India , writes:
I am fascinated with the life Alexander the Great. I am planning to write a book on his gay life.
[What's it like being gay?] I feel bloody good, happy and peaceful as a gay
Any handsome young man, like Alexander the GReat, around twenty years of age, like to be my companion can contact me.
You can email Sameer at sameergautam1975@rediffmail.com
Now that you mention it, they can contact me, too! -- Jay

HERO: Andy, 39, of Near London, writes:
Well, I just wondered if this Handel being gay thing was a joke. I was knocking up a short webpage exploring why Handel fell out with Maurice Greene quite so violently when it crossed my mind that it might have been yet another dodgy choirboy thing.
"Handel, after the three o'clock prayers, used frequently to get himself and young Greene locked up in the church together, and in summer often stript unto his shirt, and played till eight or nine o'clock at night".
Just a thought. have a look if you like and let me know what you think: http://www.greenegage.co.uk/Greene%20and%20Handel.html
You can email Andy at andypiano@greenegage.co.uk
Wow! Very interesting, and hilarious! It might be just as innocent as it sounds, although "locked up together" sounds like they were alone, and if they were just playing music, one wonders why, to keep the fans at bay? It's true, professional jealousy seems a little weak to explain such a bitter falling-out. Thanks for sending it in! -- Jay

HERO: Rob Clemenz, , of New Orleans, Louisiana, writes:
I have been in a parallel universe with you and it is located at www.saintsforsinners.com where I am selling hand painted saint medals and serenity stories. I think you should add saint Sebastian to the gay saints list - read his story on my website - he seems to be gay! And his tragic death seems to be very similar to the death and murder of Matthew Shepard, the young gay man who was from Wyoming.
[What's it like being gay?] It seems we are making great progress as a society but there are miles to go before we sleep. With great sites like yours, things are easier for people who feel oppressed.
We have a great quiz on my www.saintsforsinners.com site to determine "Who's Your Saint?" and we will be linking your site to ours very soon. Great website!
You can email Rob Clemenz at rock504@aol.com
Thank you, bro, and best of luck peddlin' the medals! -- Jay

HERO: M.C. Gordon, 50ish, of San Antonio, Texas, writes:
I am writing two novels. One is contemporary about a man raising children and can't form a relationship with the man he loves for professional reasons. The other is sci-fi/fantasy about love and magic.
[What's it like being gay? (Ms. Gordon is straight)] My relationship with gays goes back to the 1960's when I dated a boy who was gay because he was afraid if his father found out he would kill him. So he got to stay closeted and I had the best dance partner in the entire world.
I'm looking for a literary agent brave enough to take on a totally unknown writer.
You can email M.C. Gordon at quasito_cat@hotmail.com
Well get those manuscripts finished and good luck! -- Jay

HERO: reverend bill walters, 40, of mulberry florida, writes:
hello all! I have been a reverend for 3 yrs. I have been gay all my life. I been with the same lover for 21 yrs now. Life keeps getting better and better.
God has bessed us all. we are gay!!!!! I am planning to live my life as god want. to love and be loved that is gods gift to the world.
God created us all equal Marriage is 2 people who Love each other. 2 men or 2 women or 1 man & 1 women All becoming one person
You can email reverend bill walters at deadend338601@yahoo.com
Hallelujah, brother! -- Jay

HERO: David-Paul, 47, of Montreal, Quebec, Canada, writes:
I'm writing a book of vignettes called, "The Inner Bouquet". The vignettes consist of tributes to great gay legends, unusual personal experiences and some newly created gay fairy tales. Each vignette is just a a page or two. They're inspiring, offbeat and uncompromisingly GAY! If you'd like to read one just let me know your e-mail address.
For me, being gay is a gift and a unique challenge to live truthfully. It's a celebration of creativity and humor. It's the best!
I'd like to include beautiful digital photographs of gay couples, their homes, their gardens, their creations, their pets and their work and workplaces. If you'd like to be photographed and possibly included in my book please let me know by e-mail. If you have a photo already that you'd like to be included in my book, please send me the photo.
You can email David-Paul at david-paul@hotmail.com
Sounds like a great project, David-Paul from Montreal. I hope it sells a million! -- Jay

HERO: Janis, 15, of California, writes:
For me, being a lesbian is pretty hard. I live in a small town that is a completely christian community and I am greatly frowned upon. Sometimes it gets really hard to just go to school, people are just so... prejudiced.
It hurts when people refuse to be your friend just because of your sexual preference, and it's even worse when they go on about how all homosexuals should just be killed. It makes it really hard to come out of the closet, really hard.
But I did, and I guess I feel better for it. I am glad people don't threaten to murder me for the most part. They just kind of give me a shocked look and shun me, but I am ok with that. Eventually things will get better, and society won't threaten murder.
You can email Janis at huntress92@hotmail.com
Wow... it's hard to believe that there are still places and people (and Christians saying people should be killed??!!) like that in the U.S., but there you have it. Thanks for writing, Janis, you are one strong hero! -- Jay

HERO: Ricky Cintron, 13, of Phildelphia, PA, USA, writes:
After graduating from high school and college, I plan to become a teacher. I want to instill a tolerance for everyone,especially lesbians and gays,in my students. I also plan to start a GSA in high school.
[What's it like being gay?] It's great. I love being gay, I have a boyfriend and he's more loving and caring than any girl I've been in a relationship with. And when I get older, I want to spend the rest of my life with him.
To the other gay youth out there, I say: Be strong. Don't let anyone push you around. Be who you want to be. Be proud of who you are.
You can email Ricky Cintron at JumpmanRicky@comcast.net
Way to go, Jumpman. About the girls: I bet it's not THEIR fault if they seemed less loving; since YOU're gay it just seemed that way to you. I just don't want it to seem like you're blaming the girls for anything, or saying "the girls weren't very loving so I switched to guys". But don't let me push you around. --- Jay

HERO: Brian, 23, of toowoomba australia, writes:
i have struggled against all odds to finish off my high school education and get into university, last year just when i had to apply for a full time pos whithin my company my brother was in a bad car accident so i had to take time off to help with his kids and to spend time at the hospital, but hes now on the road to recovery and ive just started uni (i actually found this site while researching my first assignment)
[What's it like being gay?] after overcoming my own internal phobias and fears of what it is to be homosexual I have have found that im a lot happier and my friends and family can see that and have now started to support me
im studying library and information science at CSU i want to make it easier for people like me to get information when they need it
You can email Brian at ban2812@yahoo.com
Wow. What a man you are, sir. You are a true hero in my book. -- Jay

HERO: , 24, of FPO AP, writes:
I am a straight female, but I think gays are awesome!
I don't judge people period. I just don't. If you are gay or lesbian that's fine. I don't see why others are making a a big fuss over it. It's just the same thing as with straight people, they fall in love, they want sex ( or not? ), companionship, friendship... The only difference is that they feel it with the same sex. So what?
Honestly, I like gay people because they tend to be frank with you and tell you outright what they feel about you and they are so fun to be with. I have 3 gay friends and they are just hilarious.......
You can email at
Thank you, anonymous straight military female! -- Jay

HERO: Michelle, 14, of ny,ny, writes:
I want people to ralize that there is nothing wrong with being gay or a lesbian or even being a bisexual if that is what you are then go with it.
I'm only 14 but i know who i want to spend the rest of my life with and she wants to spend her life with me too. Some people think it's wrong and that I'm to young to know what love is but I love her with all my heart.

You can email Michelle at thebluegirl20032204@yahoo.com
Well good for you Michelle, and I hope you spend a lifetime with your beloved. -- Jay

HERO: Kerry, , of Sydney, Australia, writes:
All my life I have only ever wanted to be a painter. I grew up with this longing, just as I grew up being gay. There was no choice involved with either. I am an open gay male. I consider myself to be living my life in the same tradition as Leonardo, Michelangelo and Caravaggio - I feel them close to me when I paint.

You can email Kerry at
Good job, Kerry, just don't get any paint on their clothes. -- Jay

HERO: Kayin, 18, of Conyers,GA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I plan on being a photographer, and hopfully publishing some of my poems.
I like being the way that i am.

You can email Kayin at Beauty9102002@yahoo.com
I like you the way you are, too! -- Jay

HERO: joan, 15, of farfar away, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] convert some people by telling them it really DOESN'T matter who do you love (man Or woman)
i am okay being whatever i am.
i like my friend.
You can email joan at
And I hope your friend likes you. -- Jay

HERO: Kai Shirou, 17, of Singapore, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] 1) making music and art to liven up this world. 2) Reading quotations to help people should they turn to me in aid. 3) Lending my shoulder to one who cries, lending my ear to one who woes, lending myself to those who need someone to be there.
[What's it like being gay?] A little tough, but since people don't really notice it, i guess that's a good sign.
[Anything else to share?] Nope..except that i play the flute.
You can email Kai Shirou at kai_whitewolf@hotmail.com
Well, you are very lyrical, Kai Shirou. -- Jay

HERO: Sasha, 28, of Macedonia, writes:
I'm so proud to come from where Alexander was born, Pela. Evry Macedonian is proud of him, but not everybody like that he was gay, so they deny. Is so strange that in his time was ok for man to love man, and now people hate you for that. Especialy here now. So that's why I'm in the closet!
[What's it like being gay?] Hard, right here right now. Especialy if you are straight looking guy. You really don't wanna people to know. I hope the times will change, or go back in the time of Alexandar! I have made some goals in my life and people love me for that, one day I will say them: the guy who you loved and folow is Gay.
Macedonia have realy good looking guys, and the most beatiful women to, just like Angelina Jolie, Colin Farrell and Jared Leto :)
You can email Sasha at
WOW! You come from Pela? Amazing! Hang in there and one day, I hope you can be free and honest with everyone. Remember that you don't need to achieve great things to prove to anyone that you are a valid person. -- Jay

HERO: K. Wayne, 50ish, of Virginia, writes:
I train educators to work with children and adults with learning disabilities. My goal is to hlep those who struggle to learn and meet society's expections to soar.
[What's it like being gay?] My work environment is very conservative. I live with my soulmate, but I am still professionally in the closet. This is very difficult for me at this stage in my life.
Being gay can be a gift.
You can email K. Wayne at
I agree with that, Mr. K.! -- Jay

HERO: Victoria, 60, of szigetszentmil�s, writes:
I'd like to stop the cutting out of trees and such stuff, becuse our wolrd will fall. We won't have oxigen and we will die then.
I kissed most of my friends, i don't think being a gay or a lesbian is not good.
Live forever!
You can email Victoria at annie_h@freemail.hu
Good for you, Victoria, and greetings to everyone in Hungary! -- Jay

HERO: neena, 28 years old, of jakarta, indonesia, writes:
I m a moslem and im so sorry, in my religion, theres straight statement that gay and lesbion mustnt exist, it s wrong. There was a history abt the city of Sodom in Qur'an where there were lesbian and gay. God was mad at them and thats why He destroyed them.
Just think abt it, He creates us by couples not only abt love n sex but to be responsible as the leader of the world and to serve Him. It was really wrong.

You can email neena at ninaind@hotmail.com
Hey Neena, the story about Sodom is not about gay people. It's about abusing foreign guests. That story can not tell us how to behave -- in it Lot offers his virgin daughters to the bad guys!!! Uneducated interpretation of ancient stories leads to bigotry and hatred. You can do better. -- Jay

HERO: Martha Burciaga, 91, of Durango, Mexico, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Be a good human
[What's it like being a lesbian?] I'm Ok
Im interested in gay people�s life
You can email Martha Burciaga at dostardes@hotmail.com
Wow. You have qualified to be the senior contributor to the GayHeroes Legends List! Congratulations, Martha my dear! -- Jay

HERO: Katie, 15, of Ohio, writes:
I want to help make it safer for glbt teens in school and make it so small town libraries like mine actually have some books for us. Mine doesn't and it agrivates me. :( When I get the courage up I will be requesting a copy of Rubyfruit Jungle be sent to our library. Lesbians wanna read too. :p
[What's it like being a lesbian?] I really don't know. It's just who I am. It can be scary but incredible too. I am glad I am because if I wasn't, I would have never experienced discrimination or known what it's like. I would have never known of the cool shows and celebrities I'm into. I would have never really understood all of this or cared about it. And I love it because I love loving girls :)
I just got my class ring! :) lol Good luck to everyone out there who are in the process of coming out.
You can email Katie at shorkey@hotmail.com
Hey Katie, that sounds like a great challenge! Get those books and let us know how you did it! Cheers! -- Jay

HERO: Jirro, 20, of Manila, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] by amassing enough wealth and power to influence the world.
[What's it like being gay?] it's erotic. it's exihilarating. it's full of challenges. full of doubts. yet at the same time full of opportunities and full of surprises. one's thing for sure our lives will never be a bore! it brings an almost great feeling to know that you are one of a few special men and women whose as old as humanity itself and was revered and mystified as an existence of magical meaning during ancient times. to be a man-woman, to have both the spirit of the anima and the animus is almost magical in itself.

You can email Jirro at nasty_jiro@yahoo.com
Well Jirro, I trust you will use your powers only for good... :0) -- Jay

HERO: Anthony, 28, of Odessa Texas, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I currently write for my University's Newspaper. I have written articles about being gay and Christian two things that are sometimes not easy to combine. I am getting my Masters in Public Administration, with that degree I want to create a non-profit HIV/AIDS awareness project and open a series of GLBT Teen Recreation Centers around the country
Being gay has it's ups and downs. I sometimes have a bit of the straight tinge...but it's only a tinge. I find the male form very pleasing so guess what I am gay. All my family and friends are very accepting of my orientation. Heck some of my friends on the Newspaper wrote Letters to the Editor and even the Editor himself in his editorial column defended my views.
I have a dream, that one day straight boys and gay boys...Lesbians and straight women can walk hand in hand and all get along.
You can email Anthony at rainbow_champ@yahoo.com
What a great dream! Make it happen, Anthony! -- Jay

HERO: Tristan, 16, of New Zealand, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Having the legislation changed so that gay people can get married, although alot of people don't worry about it how can we call ourselves a equal society?
[What's it like being gay?] Cool i am who i am and no one can change that
Open mindedness is a great thing get out and explore you never know what you might find or who you might meet!
You can email Tristan at child_of_flowers1661988@yahoo.co.nz
Well said, Tristan! I like your attitude! -- Jay

HERO: Roger, the Great, 33, of Milford, MA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] In the midst of a men world, I'm talking in a professionalism way, because to be in construction business, I buit with talent and care. I'm already conquering MASS, with my own construction company, soon I will be all over New England showing them, the toughs guys, that Queers can and do the best jobs or companies, giving better pays, better enviroments to work, better benefits. And above all make them more inteligent when recognizing our amazing leadership. Specially mine. Thanks.
[What's it like being gay?] It's intriguing and the same time amazing, however it's certainly rewarding.
Why don't the world just absorbe that the gay people are here to stay.
You can email Roger, the Great at almeidaroger@hotmail.com
Best of luck, Roger, on your quest for World Domination. -- Jay

HERO: Gibby, 50, of austin, tx, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] boosting the black gay male and the black male image whenever I hear degrading remarks amongst the group. Self esteem among black males is needed for a stronger self image and by teaching black men not to degrade other black men of whatever orientation. The black male can never make a comeback without the help of the black community showing the positive.
[What's it like being gay?] At the moment, lonely but God shall provide. Ahhhh men!
[Anything else to share?] that we all need each other to make this a better world so when we learn to communicate positvely effectively with each other, we can get the hell off this planet and get really begin to live on the other planets. There are plenty of them for us to inhabit. So what's holding us up?
You can email Gibby at wgibby@hotmail.com
Ahhhh men to that! -- Jay

HERO: Alexander (No I'm not kidding), 17, of Washington, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I'm hoping to make it big in the movies as an actor and become one of the rare few who doesn't get corrupted by the lime-light.
[What's it like being gay?] I think it's more fun and interesting, all the heterosexual males I know don't look very happy.
I've never been in a relationship and am desperate to find a gay guy who's not feminine.
You can email Alexander (No I'm not kidding) at Yume_Kaze@hotmail.com
Don't be desperate, Alexander, your Hephaestion will come along. -- Jay

HERO: Ken, 17, of pittsburg, ca, writes:
im one of the few people who have manners. geez kids these days just don't have any manners whatsoever.
what's it like being gay? nothing too dramatic. live my life just like any straight person, im a little conservative though. i dunno i live in the bay area, ain't that big a deal around here haha..
i can't wait to meet my alexander and be his hephaistion (even with the typhus and all) as long as he dies conmigo!
You can email Ken at
And I'm sure your manners are making the world a fabber place. How do you know you won't meet your Hephaistion and be his Alexander? -- Jay

HERO: Tonianne B, 14, of , writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I am holding a plant a tree day on arbor day to try and bring awareness to my community about what is going on to the rainforests. I am also going to hold an endangered wildlife in north america day to try and bring awareness to people about the endangered anumals in north amercia and what can be done to help them.
[What's it like being gay? (Tonianne is straight)]I guess it's the same as being a straight person you just like people in the same sex as you.
I'm a huge wildlife enthusiast and I welcome any ideas to help me turn this materialistic world into a place where everyone and everything can learn to live together in peace, icluding the poor animals.
You can email Tonianne B at punkfreak3790@optonline.net
Excellent, Tonianne, get out there and change the world! -- Jay

HERO: Carla , 18, of Toronto, Ontario, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I am planning to take a trip to Macedonia and follow the exact route that Alexander the Great did while conquering the "world" on horse back..... i know it wont make me a hero.. but it will be fun ^_^

You can email Carla at princess_attitude1234@hotmail.com
Hey Carla -- If you can travel 22,000 miles on horseback you sure will be a hero! I hope that soon the world is a safe enough place for you to do it! -- Jay

HERO: Jason, 27, of Bloomington, Illinois, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I will write a book that will show the heterosexual world that being gay is cool. It will break down barriers, draw people together and make the world a better place.
[What's it like being gay?] Life can be tough at times, but things gets easier the more I accept myself for who I am.
[Anything else?] I have a perfect, swimmer's body- and his name is ****.
You can email Jason at
Hey Jason -- the **** is because we can't mention people's names without their permission. But I sure am jealous! Have you started writing that book yet? -- Jay

HERO: Sandra, 16, of Germany, writes:
I will get people to stop making such a fuss about sexuality. I mean, why is the people other people fall in love with so important for some people...? I just don't get it. Further I will be a great psychologist and I plan to help a lot of people with it. Aaaand I'm going try to make people more tolerant and open-minded. Also I will help to make Adam Bush (Warren on buffy) more famous =)
I decided not to define my sexuality because it just doesn't matter. Who knows, I might think I'm straight and suddenly the perfect girl comes along and I would have to change the lable I put on myself... I generally don't like lables like that...they're just seperating one group from another.
As long as people don't hurt anyone, break laws with their behaviour, or try to influence other people in a fanatic manner...just let them do their thing! And yay for body modification.
You can email Sandra at
Thank you, Sandra! I'm also all for body modification through chocolate. -- Jay

HERO: Michelle/Michael, , of Dallas, Texas, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I started a Gay-Straight Alliance at my school and host small Transexual rallies to let people see that they're not alone.
[What's it like being a FTM transsexual?] Dressing up and acting like a boy and then LIKING boys isn't easy in public society, especially in Texas. I try to let people judge me by who I am, instead of by my sexuality.
This site rocks!
You can email Michelle/Michael at UUElf@yahoo.com
Excellent, Michelle/Michael! You rock too!

HERO: Stephanie , 20, of Massachusetts, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Get Same-sex Marrige legal everywhere and eliminate the Dont ask dont tell policy
[What's it like being a lesbian?] I really dont mind it
go see the movie i am going to see i hope friday
You can email Stephanie at Simple_chic_84@yahoo.com
I think both those goals will be reached in a matter of time -- but you're right, Stephanie, we've gotta work for them! And yup, see Alexander! I did! -- Jay

HERO: mickey, 16, of trundle nsw aus, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] well im planning to make all homosexuals have the rights of straights.
[What's it like being gay? (Mickey is straight)] well being gay would be fun but bi would be better
[Anything else?] well i think that simon james from trundle and wade jenkins from trundle was being a generalist. not all people in this town are homophobes, just most. i dont and i have a couple of friends who dont mind gays
You can email mickey at booruz@yahoo.com.au
Excellent, Mickey! Thanks for writing in and I'm glad the town of Trundle NSW is so well represented by such fine young men. Cheers! -- Jay

HERO: Marie, , of KS, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] To raise my daughter (3 months atm) to be open minded and accepting of who she is, and of others who may be different from her, because I believe that may be the key to true happiness and peace. And my greatest wish is for her to be happy! A gay friend of mine and her gf watch her while I'm at work in the evening, and I'm sure she gets more love and attention than she would at a daycare.
[What's it like being gay?] I'm straight so I dunno, but listening to my gay friends gives me some idea on what it's like. I think it depends a lot on where you live.

You can email Marie at
Thanks, Marie, looks like there's hope for the new generation! -- Jay

HERO: zack, 21, of malaysia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] no idea
[What's it like being bi?] men also sexy then women
[Anyhing else?] no
You can email zack at din_cromox@yahoo.com
Zack!!! Wake up, brother! Get out there and make the world a better place! You can do it! -- Jay

HERO: Mikiko, 15, of Canada, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I'm going to become a writer, healer and human rights/religious freedom activist. I'm sick of seeing people suffer for having a different belief or physique and I'm going to make a difference.
[What's it like being bi?] It is difficult, seeing as homophobic people and uneducated individuals believe that gay or lesbian people are attracted to *all* members of the same sex. Because i'm attracted to girls, people automatically assume i'm a lesbian, which isn't bad but i wish they wouldn't assume things of me. Still, i love every minute of it and wouldn't want to be any other way.

You can email Mikiko at featheredsoul@hotmail.com
I like your determination,, Mikiko! -- Jay

HERO: Simon, 17, of England, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] Being the best linguist and fighting for Gay marriages everywhere and destroying taboo!
[What's it like being gay?] It's ok, in my school there are loads of gay people, but there are still some prats. My mum isn't too good with the whole gay thing but I dont care either.

You can email Simon at
Excellent, Simon, I bet those prats (?) and your mum will come around some day. -- Jay

HERO: Sheila, 43, of Florida, writes:
I am a Christian and I have read the bible and feel that homosexuality is wrong, however.... we all sin. I try to practice love as taught by Jesus, not tolerance. Tolerance is live and let live, love means that even if I think you are wrong I love you and if you need anything I am there for you. Love should be an action word!

You can email Sheila at
Thanks, Sheila! Love as taught by Jesus is the greatest thing in the world! And remember, Jesus never said ANYTHING about homosexuality. Do you think that's because he didn't know about it? I think it's because he knows that gay people can be just as holy (or as unholy) as straight people. -- Jay

HERO: WADE JENKINS, 16, of Trundle, NSW, Australia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Make people understand that everyone has rights , and people should respect that. Also have the same rights as hetrosexual couples
[What's it like being gay?] People in this town have the mentality of people in the 14th century, they are so backwards in their ideas, also the people i go to school with don't understand either and many think that it is a passing phase!!
People can suck really bad but then there are people who are cool sometimes i think what the hell is wrong with this F@#*ed up world??
You can email WADE JENKINS at vodoo_witch88@yahoo.co.uk
Yup, it's true people in small towns are more conservative, just because there's less diversity there. That's why lots of homos migrate to the big cities. Cheers, mate! -- Jay

HERO: Derek Adkison, 17, of Braymer, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I wrote poetry about gay people and I am in a club that tries to recruit people into realizing that "gay is the way"
[What's it like being gay?] It is so amazing! My boyfriend and I do way more and feel way more than I ever could with a girl. Guys just know how to hit the spot.
DON'T BE ASHAMED OF WHO YOU ARE....GAY PRIDE 4EVER
You can email Derek Adkison at
Hey Derek -- Thanks for being so open about how you feel. I'm sure you agree, though, that "gay isn't the way" for everyone, and that guys "know how to hit the spot" for YOU -- not everyone feels that way. Honesty is great, just don't forget the other 90+% of the world out there! -- Jay

HERO: Simon James, 16, of Aus, N.S.W, Trundle, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Have the church accept that no matter what, gay people should be allowed to be married and not be condemmed by homophobics
People in my class really have no idea what is like being gay, i live in a small town and there is this huge thing about people being "straight" although not spoken and they don't speak about homosexuals. they think that its wrong on all levels
Sometimes people just s**k (pardon the pun) i mean why the hell can't they get over it!!??
You can email Simon James at vodoo_witch88@yahoo.co.uk
Yep, it's a slow process. Certainly in the big cities, people are getting over it, but as the recent elections here in the U. S. show, in small towns, and among the religious, people are still very negative about homos. But cheer up -- it IS changing! -- Jay

HERO: Morrow, 16, of Tucson, Arizona, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] HA! That's easy! Since I am a artist and My girlfriend gives me ideas, I will animate cartoons that feature GAY relationships! In my highschool, I have a comic which features 2 characters who are male and love each other....
Oh! And my other online comic, which features lots and lots of gay relationships, Will be published once my girlfriend gets her computer fixed. It's going to be a sorta sad comic though.... I can't really give an URL because The HTML is not completed yet...
[What's it like being gay?] Uhm... Well, I hide it alot from everybody. I hide lots of things because I'm a loner =( >O Just you wait till I get famous from my drawings! *shakes fist*
You can email Morrow at misskat123@hotmail.com
Don't your high school pals assume you're gay if you draw a gay comic strip? Don't hide -- express yourself & be honest! *thrusts fist into the air & gives Morrow a hearty clap on the back* -- Jay

HERO: Elizabeth A. Cherry, 15, of North Vernon,Indiana, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I hate people who treat gays, bisexuals, and lesbians like they don't have feelings. They make fun of them because of their sexuality. I don't understand why they have to put other people down!!!!!!
I think that being gay/lesbian is no differnt than being straight I'm not gay or lesbian but they are human!!!
I'm done! nothing more to share..
You can email Elizabeth A. Cherry at none
Hating people isn't going to make the world more fab. What can you say to them to encourage them to accept everybody as equals? -- Jay

HERO: Ricki, 18, of Wales, Britian, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Im going to be the first ever gay Guitar God, since there isnt one (hmmm kirk hammett might be bi) lol big headed i know :-)
[What's it like being gay?] Apart from falling in love with str8 guys i guess its kinda cool, and i think we have far better fashion sense than any of you str8 guys lol :-) allthough i must admit i am a fashion victim, well im not ashamed of it and im proud to be gay!
god i just loooove Anthony Stewart Head (giles from buffy) he is just so hoooot !
You can email Ricki at
Rock on, Ricki! -- Jay

HERO: Amanda Zwicker, 14, of North Vernon,Indiana, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Make it possible for gays and lesbians to live out their lives without the harrassment of others.
I am straight. But I have to say that I HATE when people lash out at bis,gays,and lesbians. I have a friend who is bi, and everyone treats him like he's diseased or something. IT DOESN'T MATTER! IT'S NOT WHO THEY ARE! IT'S JUST A PART OF WHAT MAKES THEM WONDERFUL AND UNIQUE!
I'M DONE,THANKS.
You can email Amanda Zwicker at jesse_luver921@hotmail.com
You are welcome, Amanda! -- Jay

HERO: Loz, 20, of Lincoln, England, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] well, i teach, i am a lifeguard, im a beaver scout leader, i am a tattooed pierced small girly person who is goin2dress as a fairy princess 4 Xmas! yay! special, no?
[What's it like being bi?] u get choice, people ask u all sorts (i love answerin questions!) BUT the bad thing is people automatically ask for threesomes.....NO! dammit NO!
i am actually with a v caring kind sweet sexy bloke right now, who knows bout evrything i hav done/ i do, but i am still in touch with my bi side! wish me luck...
You can email Loz at swedish_p0rn_star@hotmail.com
Well best of luck to you, small girly beaver-leader that you are! -- Jay

HERO: J Larry Rivera, 46, of Mission Viejo, CA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Being a nurse.
[What's it like being gay?] Just the best!
[What else?] Wish someone would do a comprehensive scholarly work about the Sacred Band of Thebes. Alexander's special ops unit that was composed of brave gay lovers. Very fierce and phenomenal military men.
You can email J Larry Rivera at larzsystem@yahoo.com
Well why don't you? I hope they'll be portrayed in the Alexander the Great movie. -- Jay

HERO: Lizz, 14, of Jersey, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] i will write the first-ever lesbian love story and pubish it. No matter what, i will do anything to make people accept gays, etc. for who they are.
[What's it like being bi?] i'm proud of it, but my mom dosen't understand. my girfriend supports me.

You can email Lizz at colouroftherainbows@yahoo.co.uk
Well I hope you can use the poetry of Sappho as an inspiration for your writing! Cheers -- Jay

HERO: revel, 45, of Spain, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] teaching english
[What's it like... being gay?] wonderful

You can email revel at
Gracias, Sr. Revel. -- Jay

HERO: Christopher Vahe Shapiro Chooljian, 19, of CA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I am the president of my college's Queer Club. I founded my high school's Gay/Straight Alliance. I give talks in classes about queer issues. I plan to teach high school and continue activism.
[What's it like being gay?] I am a transexual gay man. So it is very difficult, particularly since I'm also a Christian. I did not fully realize any of this until some months ago. So people's expectations of me are quite different.
Christianity and Homosexuality are thought to conflict. The constant battles between transgender, homosexuals, and Christians is just frustrating and need to end. We are all God's children, we are all members of the queer community, why must we fight?
You can email Christopher Vahe Shapiro Chooljian at ChristheImportal@yahoo.com
Hey, CVSC, you sure have had an heroic struggle so far and I expect there's lots more ahead for you. Your courage and strength are inspirational. Cheers, my bro! -- Jay

HERO: Shana , 25, of Georgia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab... ] I am going to be a teacher. I hope to influence young children to be tolerant of each other and to be respectful of each other. I am a republican and mostly I am very conservative. I want the gay community to know that being republican does not necessarily mean that you hate people that are different. We can disagree and still respect each other. I have known some really great gay men and women. We have been able to overcome our differences by respecting each others boundaries. IF the world could follow suit can you imagine the outcome.
[What's it like being gay? (Shana is straight)] I think that it must be a difficult life to endure. You have to be a strong person to overcome the obstacles that face you. Good luck in all your endeavers.

You can email Shana at
You are so right, Shana, a little tolerance could make the whole world a lot better! Thank you! -- Jay

HERO: alex, 14, of charlotte, nc, writes:

(What's it like being gay?) the humiliation and discrimination is worth it all im proud of what i am and no one not even my mother can stop me from being me
be proud, and shout it out loud, im gay and its ok -- when i heard alexander the great was gay i felt proud of being me even more and having that name.
You can email alex at
That is EXACTLY why I made GayHeroes.com, Alex, so that gay heroes of today (like you!) could be proud to relate to the gay heroes of the past. Thank you sir, you have made my day. No one can humiliate you, not even your mom! Just keep being certain that you are Alexander (the Great!), perfect and beautiful just as God made you. Now get out there and conquer the world. -- Jay -- p.s. -- the Alexander the Great movie is coming out soon!

HERO: Ryan, 27, of Palm Springs, California, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Sharing my personal mantra with the world, "The policy of being too cautious is the greatest risk of all." Of course, I didn't come up with that. Jawaharlal Nehru did.
[What's it like being gay?] Wouldn't change a thing, even if I had the chance. Got rid of some really annoying family members by coming out. And married (well, not quite) a man that makes life worth living.
Be proud of who you are!
You can email Ryan at ruhlenkott@desertaidsproject.org
It all sounds pretty fab to me, Ryan! -- Jay

HERO: Filip-Gustav, 38, of Brussels, Belgium, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Just love each other as we are...
[What's it like being gay?] It feels great... Of course I am raised in a very liberal country (one of the two countries in the world where gay marriage is legal ..., the so-called most powerful politician of this country is gay, ...). I have a lovely boyfriend who's my parents favorites... What does one want more in live?
Bush get into the bushes together with Osama and other queer-hating fools... I'll volunteer to put the bushes on fire... Nope, I am to lovely for that. Just let's love eachother...
You can email Filip-Gustav at filip9266@yahoo.com
Yes sir, you are TOO lovely! -- Jay

HERO: Carlos, 29, of Mexico City, writes:
I think it could be a better and wonderful world if all of the people could accept that we all are different!!! In Mexico City people is getting more open minded, not as much as we�d wish but it�s the beginning. I trust no matter we are gay we are going to be accepted not for our preferences but our minds and skills.
[What's it like being gay?] Well it was kind of hard in the very beginning because I thought no one knew about me, hehehehe, whatta surprise when my parents made me tell them the whole truth it was a very stressful situation but fortunately I was able to go through it; my mom told me not to be afraid and also said...did you think that we were going to put you on a cross??? since then I relieved my pain and now I�m very happy trying to enjoy myself as I can always being careful.
A man, what a wonderful creature!!!
You can email Carlos at carlospro25@hotmail.com
Your mom sounds like quite a hero. -- Jay

HERO: Guan-Yin, 18, of England, writes:

I love me and being gay is just another little part of who I am and who i love
"Good night my dear one Angels guard thee God protect thee My love enfold thee All the night through" I think that is beautiful and I wanted to share that piece of Eleanor Roosevelt and Lorena Hickok's love story!
You can email Guan-Yin at
Thanks, Guan-Lin, that is beautiful! -- Jay

HERO: Jessica, 18, of Spain, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I'm actually going to join the air force soon. Even while I may not enjoy the current guy in charge, I still love my country.
[What's it like being a lesbian?] Woo. It's more exciting than a barrel of monkeys thats for sure. But in the end, its lovely.
Great site, learned a few things!
You can email Jessica at supercrackhead@hotmail.com
Way to go, Jessica -- I'm sure we can use more supercrackheads in the military! I'm a Air Force Brat; my dad was an Air Force lifer --it's a great life and it'll be an amazing experience for you I'm sure. -- Jay

HERO: Hildebrandt, 14, of Bellaire,TX, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] To be a great statesman.
[What's it like being gay?] Great and terrible.
{Anything else?] no.
You can email Hildebrandt at
Some great statesmen were men of few words, just like you, Mr. H. Go get 'em! -- Jay

HERO: Cassie, 19, of Worcester, Mass, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] protesting against Bush and others who feel gays shouldn't marry and anyone that's for gay bashing or hate crimes and get this bill for hate crimes passed.
[What's it like being lesbian?] Its been tough i have been gay bashed right in school but my parnets have been kewl about and my grandmother disowns me.
Im getting married yay for me
You can email Cassie at dyke_life_4_life@yahoo.com
That's quite an agenda, Cassie! Way yay for you!!! -- Jay p.s. Cassie was my grandmother's name -- I bet your grandma will come around someday.

HERO: Ivany, 60, of Munich, Germany, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Don't want to get old and alone. Younger friends keep you young, so we all should have nice good young friends and should help them around us in our lives; be it good or bad. Teach people to make LOVE and not WAR.
[What's it like being bi?] It's like a sausage; has two ends,but you must make them meet. Give it a try, but don't break the sausage.
[What else?] Warmth and comfort, but not only through a blanket..! Don't want anyone to die being a virgin. Email contacts with younger people would be appreciated. Enjoy sex, but be always protected.Both girls & Boys should think this way.
You can email Ivany at ivany_mike_munich@yahoo.de
Um, sausage? Hmm. -- Jay

HERO: Genevieve, 16, of Manhattan, writes:
World needs to be more openminded. I have some family in Jamaica who are very closed minded...the country itself is infamous for killing gays..men in particular. And yet,the people call themselves Christian. Doesn't make any sense. I say choose a path. Be open minded. Its the best way to go.
Im bi....its cool, Im an artist..i have girls who are bi or lesbian in my original story line. Yet unlike the people in the real world, my characters accept each other for who they are. So lets all be like crayons. Some are blue and some are black, some are yellow and some are pink. Some are blunt and some are pointy. And yet they all live together in one happy little box :)
Yeah if you're gonna email me indicate in the subject who you are and where you found my email..cuz weeks from now im bound to forget. ;)
You can email Genevieve at kickazzchick2001@aol.com
Thanks Genevieve! -- Jay

HERO: Cheryl, 14, of Los Angeles, California, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I want to teach people to accept gay and lesbians and treat them like individuals.
[What's it like being bi?] I love it! all my friends at school know and they are perfectly fine with it. the only problem is that I haven't told my parents yet.
[What else?] I love to sing and I am a huge anime freak.
You can email Cheryl at cfzgrld@adelphia.net
Not to worry, your parents will find out when you're ready. Thanks for writing, Cheryl!

HERO: Lexi and Becca, , of Lincoln, California, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] We're planning to start a gay-straight alliance in Lincoln, a generally non-tolerant city and high school.
[What's it like being lesbians?] Lexi-it's fabulous! (and a bit difficult to hide around my grandparents.) Becca-My best friend Lexi is a lesbian..... and it's cool because I get to help out with gay pride stuff.
Becca - I wish I had been born a gay guy!!! Lexi - Pride rocks! Pretty rainbow.... By the way, I just found www.godhateshomophobes.com people should go there! It's REALLY funny!
You can email Lexi and Becca at
Thanks, Lexi & Becca! This is the first time we've had a tag-team post! -- Jay

HERO: Jonathan Lee, 13, of Saint Louis, Missouri, writes:
I recently just came out (may 19th) and I've had a great coming out expierence. I hope that my success will insipre others to come out as well. I really don't want to get into politics, so I'm just going to be the nicest person I can be and try to make the world a more accepting place.
[What's it like being gay?] It's very cool! Suddenly all the girls want to be my friend and such. Guys, well guys will be guys they're just funny in the way they react, not really bad just non shalont.
Don't hold in your orientation, tell people (unless you live in a homophobic area) I was lukcy one of my principals happened to be gay and inspired me to come out.
You can email Jonathan Lee at macguy815@sbcglobal.net
Excellent Jonathan Lee, I'm totally proud of you, you big dude, you! Congrats also to your principal -- now you will be a big inspiration to others. You're my hero! -- Jay

HERO: Der Nikolaus, 23, of Sardinia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I'm helping people to reach their true themselves, to find their way to peace-of-mind and co-operation. everyone should be glad of WHO he is, and of the riches of this fab-world
[What's it like being gay?] that's my normal being, neither awful nor marvellous, simply the right thing. but I'm gay just politically, since my body and mind have no limits regarding who to fall in love with.
[What else?] be just what you are; it's the simple law which governs life
You can email Der Nikolaus at
Thanks, DN, -- I think you're our first guy from Sardinia! -- Jay

HERO: Angel, 27, of Harrisburg Pennsylvania, writes:
As a writer growing up, I had no template of gay life except what I heard through my Minister Father. It took years before I realized that being gay did not mean I was a pansy or a limpwristed "fag" Through my stories, I hope to give gay teens a light at the end of the tunnel. To stand up and shout enough is enough. And to show them to be yourself above what society deems is gay.
[What's it like being gay?] I wake up gay everyday. It's nothing really special. I work, I laugh a lot. I try to be a good person though most times I fail. I search for love outside a one night stand and usually go to bed alone but still happily gay.
James Dean was once quoted after being asked about his sexuality, "Why should I live my life with one hand tied behind my back?"
You can email Angel at fireangel197502@yahoo.com
Wow, that's a great quote, Angel! thanks for writitng! -- Jay

HERO: Fiona, 37, of Scotland, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] Plant more trees
[What's it like being gay?] Lonely in some ways, 'cos I don't know any other gay men trapped in female bodies. But it's got its advantages, 'cos there was nothing to stop me marrying a man. How weird is that, huh?
Could you do a page of fictional gay heroes, to inspire us? E.g. Achilles & Patroclus, Roland & Oliver, Starsky & Hutch
You can email Fiona at fionacourtney@postmaster.co.uk
That sure is interesting, Fiona. But why don't YOU do a fictional GayHeroes page? -- Jay

HERO: HRG, 17, of MA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I hope to follow in the footsteps of Handel & Lully. I want to write an opera some day, a gay version of Romeo & Juliet (I just need to find a gay man who speaks Italian!).
[What's it like being gay?] I'm closeted. It is generaly good, but there are times when it can be quite difficult.
You don't happen to know of any gay mathamaticians do you?
You can email HRG at
The movie "A Beautiful Mind" starring Russell Crowe as John Nash, was controversial because the Ron Howard film left out the part about Nash being gay. Apparently Alan Turing was famously gay. If you google "A Beautiful Mind" "gay" you'll get lots of info. -- Jay p.s. click on "Ask Marilyn" on the gayheroes home page and read what she has to say about coming out.

HERO: Nigel Humphreys, 38, of MANCHESTER, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] I am a sculptor and presently sculpting an Alexander the Great sculpture in battle and a Gladiator bust. I love to bestow great sculptures upon the world.
[What's it like being gay?] It's superb! If God came to me tomorrow and made me 100% straight I would be quite angry and ask him to change me back the way I was.

You can email Nigel Humphreys at NigelHumphrey1@AOL.Com
Very good, sir -- I'm sure your fellow gay sculptor Michelangelo is watching over you. -- Jay

HERO: sergio di laker, 21, of slovenia, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] now I work in one of the best hotel in slovenia,as a waiter and I am planning to go to england to become a butler. in the future I am planning to share with the world my story about, how is it to be a gay in our world.
[What's it like being gay?] for me is hard to be a gay men because some of the people in my area of school, home, well they see me as a disqousting thing, they even think I am a devile.
But I'm not I'm very romantic sensitive boy and I love animals, nature, people, so I cannot be Osama bin Laden like some people think.
You can email sergio di laker at sergej_jezernik@hotmail.com
Hey Sergio, thanks so much for writing! Best of luck on your chosen path! Cheers -- Jay

HERO: if u only knew, 13, of NY, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] *sigh* not sure....I m some where between lawyer and demi god....
[What's it like being gay?] haha awsome (I m not out yet) especially when we have to get changed for gym hehehe * snicker*
liking straight guys is horrible because they tend to like ur bestfriend who is a girl...also flirting with straight men without them realizing they're flirting is quite amusing do try...
You can email if u only knew at lalala@lala.com
Don't worry, sir, you have plenty of time to sort things out. Take your time and enjoy. And for sound advice on coming out, click the "Ask Marilyn" link on the GayHeroes home page. Cheers, brotha! -- Jay

HERO: Francis Killjoy, 16, of Sacramento, California, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] On my hit list is: author, actor, director, musician, artist, poet. Later in life will come politics and diplomacy. I will also be a moderate gay icon.
[What's it like being gay?] Coming out was a blast!! Being gay is one of the most fun things I've ever done- it gets one so much attention and respect.
Alexander the Great is a god.
You can email Francis Killjoy at kasmander@care2.com
Excellent, Francis, I agree with you about Alex (and so did he!). -- Jay

HERO: Jay, 41, of Ireland, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Spread a little love, it's cheaper than bullets!!!!
[What's it like being gay?] If I wasn't I wouldn't have met my boyfriend/soulmate (luv ya).
As a philosophy student, it struck me the other day; if the bible is the "word of God", then why did neither "God, Jesus or the Holy Spirit" ever write anything in the bible. It is a book that contains writings on other peoples interpretations of what they believe to be, rightly or wrongly, what the "word of God" is. [Just sharing an observation]
You can email Jay at jayboy104@hotmail.com
Hmmmm.... -- Jay

HERO: Chloe, 16, of Slidell, LA, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Convince the world that French people have a reason to think we're stupid.... Just because they don't want to storm in and bomb people doesn't mean they're wrong.
But seriously, the day this country stops being so bloody homophobic I'm throwing a huge party and wearing my gay pride ribbon and dancing the night away, because if there's one thing I've noticed since I moved to this country (from Australia), it's that America is such a closeted nation... in many ways!
Ho hum... ELVIS LIVES BABY! Don't give up on China, the Middle Kingdom's getting there (watch for 2008). I AM a princess no matter what my mother says. One day my Tiher and I will meet again, and finally (enfin), VIVE LA FRANCE!
You can email Chloe at frollo_lives@hotmail.com
Tr�s formidable, Chloe! -- Jay

HERO: Heywood Jablomie, 23, of New York, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Eating. But not ween, cuz I'm not gay.
[What's it like being gay?] I'm not gay....
[Anything else to share?] OKAY, OKAY! I'M GAY!!!!
You can email Heywood Jablomie at
Normally I'd have deleted this in a heartbeat. But it cracked me up, what can I say. Thanks, Mister Jablowme. -- Jay

HERO: Katherine, 16, of Minot, North Dakota, writes:
I'm working on setting up the first student group for a safe school in North Dakota ...I also slowly subvert my friends to being openminded. I also hope to help anyone who is afraid of coming out.
For many many years I was I was scared to death of being a lesbian...in my family (I know this sounds odd) you're supposed to be bi...being bi is okay, but if you say you're gay, then you're wrong I pretended for years until I met my first girlfriend...she showed me it's okay to be who I am, ...it's you, and it makes you happy, and the only thing wrong with it is pretending you're something else.
This is a revolutionary time...the time of hiding and silence is over. Stand up and be heard. P.S. If anyone has suggestions for GSA related things, or anything like that, please do e-mail me :)
You can email Katherine at wearethemachinesoftomorrow@hotmail.com
Thanks for writing, Katherine! -- Jay

HERO: Steph, 16, of Guam, writes:
[Plans to make the world more fab...] I just want to show my perspective on things and hope that people stop to think about it.
I am Catholic but I grew up learning that God loves everyone and that he made everyone and that everyone was made equal. If homosexuals, bisexuals,etc. did not come out then I bet u that no one would say anything they only have a problem because these people chose to come out and be different. Some people are afraid of change.
I believe in being urself and that if God made you and me and he made all of us different then God made us all the way we were supposed to be. (that includes sexuality)
You can email Steph at
I agree, Steph, some people are afraid of things that are different or unfamiliar. They should just GET OVER IT! Cheers, m'dear. -- Jay

HERO: Man from Guyana, 32, of Georgetown, Guyana, South America, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab] working hard against all forms of violence and against aids; working from behind the closet to deal with homophobia, sometimes it is easy, sometimes not. i hate being gay, but funny enough, i got involved in some work because i wanted to 'purge my sins'.
i hate being a coward and not coming out to people around me. i hate having to write this anonymously. but i am really proud of the people here who are doing so well, and the gay men and women in places like Jamaica and in parts of the US where homophobia is tough.
this is a great site, there are many other heroes in recent times who do great things. it is good to meet everyone here.
You can email Man from Guyana at wish i could
Thanks, Man from Guyana. I appreciate that not all cultures are easy to "come out" in. It's really sad to hear you say "i hate... ihate... i hate..." -- that's no way to live! I hope you can find inner freedom some day. -- Jay

HERO: Lydia, 15, of Florida, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] Takoe futari hanarebanare ni natte mo watashitachi sekai wo kaeru. Even if the two if us get separated, we will change the world. I plan on revolutionizing the world, to reach a higher plane of revelation in which age, background, gender, and orientation are all so 20th century.
[What's it like being a "pansexual"] Kinda freaks people out when I flirt with the same sex, but then again, I'm a freaky person.
[What else?] I have a paper due on Julius Caesar versus Alexander the Great in about fourteen hours.
You can email Lydia at necrostitches@yahoo.com
Excellent Lydia, I hope you get straight (!?) "A"s. -- Jay

HERO: mr naumowich, 49, of crown point, writes:
[Plans to make world more fab...] teaching world history at lowell high school just so i can make kids smart and get by in this world
its nice being gay everyone knows and thats the way i like it
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You can email mr naumowich at